V’Zakeini is a compilation of hundreds of unique and heartfelt tefillos for every stage of life. The behind-the-scenes story, below.
Looking for ‘the right one?’ Preparing for Yom HaChuppah? Davening for Shalom Bayis? Asking Hashem for children, and for hatzlacha raising them? Davening for health? The perfect tefillah (and so many more!) are in the brand-new Sefer V’Zakeini.
We caught up with Nechama Rotshtein, parenting coach at www.kavanaparenting.com and the woman behind Sefer V’Zakeini, to hear why every home should have a copy.
‘I’ve always loved unique tefillos,’ Nechama explains, ‘When I was single, I had found a beautiful Otzar Kallah, a collection of tefillos for a kallah on her wedding day, by Mrs. Chani Feldbrand, that I began giving out to my friends as gifts. As I was patiently waiting my turn it occurred to me, why was I waiting to daven? My husband, wherever he was, could surely use my tefillos already! And so, I started davening from the list for Yom HaChuppah, and V’Zakeini was born. I continued to amass a collection of tefillos, far beyond just Yom HaChuppah.

“As I moved through life, my tefillah collection continued to rapidly expand. I knew I had to somehow share these tefillos, but I wasn’t sure how. 16 years ago, Rabbi Shlomo Bochner of Bonei Olam came to speak in Cleveland, where I live. I was so inspired by Bonei Olam’s mission, and knew I wanted to support them in some way. And so the idea for Sefer V’Zakeini was born: I would find a way to publish these tefillos and all the proceeds would go to Bonei Olam as a personal project to help support couples struggling with infertility.”

And so the idea for Sefer V’Zakeini was born: I would find a way to publish these tefillos and all the proceeds would go to Bonei Olam to support couples struggling with infertility.

Take a peek inside Sefer V’Zakeini here!
The book is beautiful, with gorgeous typography. The tefillos are divided by category (categories listed in English too to make it easier to find the right ones).
- Tefillos for Shidduchim & Marriage. These are tefillos to find the right one (different ones for men and women) to say for yourself or for others.
- Tefillos before the Chuppah: Based off Nechama’s original Otzar Kallah, plus more.
- Tefillos for Hadlakas Neiros
- Tefillos for before the Mikvah
- Tefillos for Fertility
- Tefillos for Health
- Tefillos for Pregnancy & Birth (for women to say for themselves, and for her husband or others to say for her)
- Special Mitzvos for Boys
- Parent’s Tefillos for their Children
See more of what’s inside here.
You can also daven for your children with the Avos al Banim excerpt here.
There really is a beautiful, heartfelt tefillah for every occasion! The feedback has been absolutely amazing, these tefillos really give us the words for the feeling in our hearts. Sefer V’Zakeini is the perfect addition to your bookcase, it’s something that you’re going to reach for again and again. It also makes such a perfect gift.
You can purchase Sefer V’Zakeini in your local bookstore, or online on Amazon here or Mosaica Press here.
“I want people to live like they pray – with Kavana!” Visit www.livingwithkavana.com to hear Nechama’s story of Chizuk during life transitions, and more stories of others’ yeshuos and stories of chizuk coming soon!
