What do those antibiotics actually do? When do they work and when will they not? This is a parent’s guide to understanding how medicine works for your children.
Antibiotics have saved countless children’s lives. I prescribe them often and gratefully when they’re truly needed. But they’re not a magic cure-all. And as frustrating as that can feel when you’re dealing with a miserable, coughing child at bedtime, that reality is actually very good news for your child’s long-term health.
Not long ago, one of my own kids woke up coughing at 2 a.m. You know the kind—the barky, dramatic cough that sounds ten times worse in the dark. By morning, there was a runny nose, low-grade fever, and lots of whining. I did what every parent does: I ran through the mental checklist. Does this need antibiotics? Should I call? What if it turns into something worse?
And then I reminded myself of what I tell parents every single day.
Most childhood illnesses don’t need antibiotics, and giving them “just in case” doesn’t help kids get better faster.
What Antibiotics Actually Do (and Don’t Do)
Antibiotics are designed to kill bacteria. They do nothing against viruses.
That matters because most of what otherwise healthy kids get (think colds, coughs, sore throats, runny noses, flu, RSV, and many ear infections) are caused by viruses. In those cases, antibiotics won’t shorten the illness or make symptoms improve. What they can do is cause side effects like diarrhea, rashes, or yeast infections, which is the last thing a sick kid (or parent) needs. Frequent antibiotics also mess with our gut flora which has lots of negative health consequences.
So when your pediatrician says, “I don’t think an antibiotic will help right now,” what they’re really saying is:
- This looks viral.
- Your child’s immune system is doing exactly what it’s supposed to do.
- Adding medication would only add risk, not benefit.
The Problem With “Just in Case”
Every unnecessary antibiotic dose teaches bacteria how to get smarter and tougher. Over time, that leads to antibiotic resistance meaning that when a child truly does need antibiotics, the options may be fewer or less effective.
On a very practical level, overuse can also mean:
- More stomach upset and diarrhea
- Allergic reactions
- Medications that don’t work as well down the road
For things like mild ear infections, lingering coughs, or uncomplicated colds, watchful waiting is often the safest and healthiest option. Kids’ immune systems are remarkably capable, even when the symptoms look dramatic.
Modern pediatric guidelines actually encourage using antibiotics only when clearly indicated, and for the shortest effective course. The goal is to help kids recover while minimizing unnecessary risk.
If your child is sick, helpful questions to ask your pediatrician include:
- “Does this seem more viral or bacterial?”
- “What should I watch for that would change the plan?”
- “How can I help my child feel more comfortable at home?”
And then focus on the basics that truly help:
- Fluids and rest
- Saline and humidifiers
- Correct dosing of fever and pain medication
- Honey (for kids older than 1)
I know how hard it is to hear “no antibiotic” when your child feels awful and you just want a fix.
But often, that answer means your pediatrician is doing exactly what you want them to do: protecting your child today and preserving lifesaving medicines for the future.
It’s never wrong to have a sick child evaluated. Not everything is viral, and antibiotics absolutely have an important role when they’re needed. Your pediatrician is a trusted partner in helping sort out what’s going on, what your child needs right now, and what can safely be watched at home.
Sometimes the most valuable part of a visit isn’t a prescription, it’s clarity, reassurance, and a plan!
* A school nurse takes you behind the scenes to learn how to read your child’s symptoms…especially on a school day. When Should You Keep Your Kids Home from School?
A great read! Is it recommended to give children probiotics? From what age? And what are the benefits?