Themes Where Kids Don’t Need to Match

Your kids can’t agree on one costume for Purim. But they still want some type of coordination. What can you do?

We don’t really do themes. Perhaps it’s because we’re really out-of-towners at heart, or perhaps because I couldn’t ever imagine my children agreeing on one type of costume. For most years, Purim costumes went more  “choose whatever you want” system. 

Lately though, my younger children have been influenced by the surrounding culture. And even though they still can’t agree on one costume, they still want to feel somewhat coordinated. Hence these themes. These “themes” allow your kids to make their own decisions and choose a costume of their own, while still feeling like they’re part of the same family.

One example:

  • Around the World. Every child choose their own country/costume. Anything goes, from the Eskimo, to the French Painter, to the South African/Australian Explorer, to the Mexican Senorita, or the Japanese Girl in a silk robe, to the British soldier or nanny… there is so much flexibility. 

Other Non-Theme Themes:

  • Community workers (perfect for those families where one boy wants to be a policeman and another a fireman)
  • Athletes 
  • History (you can stick to a time period or location or keep it flexible)
  • Careers
  • Jews from different communities
  • Animals

Do you have more ideas of non-theme themes?

Victoria Dwek

Victoria is the best-selling author of nine kosher cookbooks and a popular columnist for Ami Magazine. She always has the words for bringing everything that’s in our hearts onto the page. 

39 responses to “Themes Where Kids Don’t Need to Match”

  1.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    Zoo theme… everyone can be different animals and older kids can be zookeepers or trainers.

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    Anonymous

    Circus theme is also very broad, cuz there are so so many options. Clown, dancers, acrobats, lions, elephants, monkeys, trainers, ringmasters…

  3. shira ahuva Avatar
    shira ahuva

    another great idea is circus themed (ringmaster, magician, lion, clown etc.)

  4. alta Avatar
    alta

    bakers is a very cute theme because you can do some bakers and some baked goods (cupcake, donut, cookie)

  5. Mom of Boys Avatar
    Mom of Boys

    I love this post! Anyone have more suggestions?

  6. Sk Avatar
    Sk

    Book characters
    Royal family – but whoever doesn’t want to be a king or a princess can be whatever they want but call it the palace chef, the palace guard, the royal pet, etc…

    1. Nava Avatar
      Nava

      The royal pet is adorable! This is so clever.

  7. Menucha Golovenzitz Avatar
    Menucha Golovenzitz

    I once had a year where my 4 year old was desperate to be a police officer and my older kids wanted a theme. One dressed up in a piece of bread with peanut butter, one in bread with jelly, one in a jelly jar and one in a peanut butter jar and they were his lunch

    1. Nava Avatar
      Nava

      That is the cutest!

  8. Chani Avatar
    Chani

    Great idea! Love this post

  9. E h Avatar
    E h

    We’ve been circus themed, and trophies along with a few of the ones mentioned…

  10. Msl Avatar
    Msl

    Farmer and animals

  11. R D Avatar
    R D

    Cops and robbers
    Animals and hunters/animals and safari explorers/animals and zookeeper
    Curious George and man with yellow hat
    Firefighters and Dalmatians
    Aliens and astronauts

  12. Baila S. Avatar
    Baila S.

    Different types of toys is another idea
    (Toy soldiers, stuffed teddy, dolls, Lego man etc…)
    Or Different types of games

  13. Sara Avatar
    Sara

    We were “black and white and read all over”. When one of the younger kids wanted to be a Red crayon and my 6 yr old a kallah and my 11 yr old some fancy colonial. My 9 yr old was a baker. Mishloach manos was given with newspaper theme.

  14. Sara Avatar
    Sara

    Shabbos kodesh theme:
    Fisherman
    Kallah- shabbos queen
    Rich man
    Yosef maker shabbos
    Flower girl

    1. R Avatar
      R

      like this!

  15. K Avatar
    K

    One year we had a Mordechai and an Esther and a clown and we said the theme was Purim 🙂

    1. NS Avatar
      NS

      Charvona was a clown so they were all dressed up like shushan! 🙂

  16. A Avatar
    A

    How about Royalty: king, queen, princess, jester, maid, etc
    Or circus: any kind of animal, ballerina, clown, ringmaster, etc.

  17. Creative Avatar
    Creative

    Sticking to one color is also theme-ish. For example everyone can pick anything in red. From Elmo, to a firefighter, to a red crayon. And it looks adorable in a photo!

    1. Raizy Weinfeld Avatar
      Raizy Weinfeld

      cute

  18. Rosie Green Avatar
    Rosie Green

    Red riding hood themed. The boys are the wolf, girls are old lady or red riding hood and baby is the apple from the basket!

  19. MG Avatar
    MG

    Tintin:, you can have Tinitin captain Haddock the Tompsons and Calcalus (Tintin can even be a girl if she wears the long trench coat), lots of different costumes and room for individuality but really coordinated. a baby or toddler could be an adorable snowy

  20. Tzippy K Avatar
    Tzippy K

    Black and white :
    Mobster/Dalmatian/mime
    Safari:
    Jungle animals/hunters
    Medieval:
    Hunter/prince/princess/ apple
    Ocean:
    Shark/fisherman/octopus/ sushi chef
    Area 53:
    Mad scientist/alien/ Air Force pilot

  21. Sara Avatar
    Sara

    We did colors one year
    The boys were different ninjas
    Purple butterfly
    Pink. Ballerina

  22. The mom Avatar
    The mom

    We did uncle moishys, magician, makeup artist, ballerina, … One year gave out circus themed mm

  23. Chaya S Avatar
    Chaya S

    I did Shabbos with four kids (a bit different than above): Twin girls were leichters (I made them silver dresses with a candle headband), and my boys were challah and grape juice.
    Condiments with three kids: ketchup, mustard and relish
    Just twins – PB + J

  24. H Avatar
    H

    I’m doing American girl doll theme. Every girl is a different doll that resembles them the most.

  25. A Avatar
    A

    One super cute theme I saw once was chicken soup! Parents were chefs, kids were all different veggies, baby was a chicken. Beyond adorable! Purim was erev shabbos in yerushalayim and they gave out chicken soup and challah in their mishloach manos.

  26. Sg Avatar
    Sg

    We did AMERICA theme once. We had a hobo, cowboy, IRS guy, American flag etc.

    1. Tova Avatar
      Tova

      LOL that’s hysterical and accurate

  27. M Avatar
    M

    Themes help my kids figure out which costume they want, so it’s less broad, they can think what they would like within a theme. These are some we have done in the past:
    Eretz Yisrael : kohen Gadol, Israeli soldier, kallah, and my youngest didn’t want to dress up, so we stuck a Na nach yarmulka on his head
    Jungle : koala bear, rhinoceros, and jungle explorer
    Royal: king, princess, knight, dragon
    Sports: baseball, hockey, football
    We’ve also done cowboys and pirates, where everyone wore their own version. Like I bought a couple of costumes and everyone mixed and matched with stuff we had at home, choosing different items/accessories

  28. Naama Frank Avatar

    Probably Cowboys and Cowgirls. (English South African). and Farmers. (English).

  29. k Avatar
    k

    yoou can do a MAG theme (magnificent)
    MAGazine – newsies
    MAGa – trump fan
    MAGician
    MAGnifying glass – spy, detective
    MAGnatiles – games
    MAGlev – train conductor

  30. Michal Avatar
    Michal

    You could do Moroccan themed- moroccan kaftan for boys/girls, snake charmer, camel, monkey/monkey trainer…

  31. Chana Avatar
    Chana

    Favorite theme i once saw was Purim story themed – they had a haman, vashti – in a stunning black gown, queen esther, king achashveirosh… lots of room for creativity, but very well rounded.

    another cute one was a toy store – china doll, teddy bear, soldier…

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