Your daughter is a kallah! How exciting! What should you be doing now?
This is an exciting time. A busy time. Also, a time where you have a nagging feeling in the back of your mind telling you “I should be doing something today, I know it, but what?”
So, here is the list. THE list. Then one which will give you the freedom to breathe knowing that it’s all here. True, this list is extensive. It’s a combination of many lists (some provided by you, our readers). We figured, you’d rather have a full list, and pick what you are doing, or have to do. Just ignore the things that are not applicable to you.

To Download the PDF version click here. For an Excel file, click here. (The excel file is a ‘view only’ file. You will need to save a copy and then you can edit it and make it yours.)
With thanks to Rebbetzin Weissblum, B. Flagler, Y. Neiman, S. Weil and everyone else that contributed.
Coming soon: Setting Up an Apartment.
Can you please make a master chosson list for mothers of the chosson? Thank you!
Hi,
Thank you so much for your incredible work! My filter is not letting me download the link, is it possible to get it emailed?
Yes, please email hello@betweencarpools.com
Why does this look so manageable? I’m not up to making weddings yet but this looks really useful
Yes, a list for the boys side would be great! We are mothers of BOYS and GIRLS 🙂 Thank you
For anyone interested, my sister and I created an archive on Google Drive called the Mazel Tov Archive with lots of lists, numbers, stores, etc. for weddings. Email mazeltovarchive@gmail.com and ask to have it sent to you!