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I’m surprised between carpools would allow these pics with hair showing on their website when it’s against Halacha to show a women’s hair. Your advertising hair covering but there’s hair showing…
It’s important that when we see someone doing something differently than us, we give them the benefit of the doubt and not to judge people. If you cover all your hair you can feel proud of yourself and move on.
No. It’s important that when you see someone doing something against halacha that you call out about it so you don’t lower your own sensitivity.
Unless you want to say that they don’t know that leaving hair showing is wrong.
It’s not your job or anyone else’s to police others on their Judaism. By you making these comments can very well be triggering for someone else and turn them off from yiddishkeit. It’s important that we all watch we say to others as you never know how or what it’ll do to them.
Yes I agree with you Sarah and I dont think it’s ok for a frum website to have none tznius
Halacha is one thing and minhag is another. It’s important to keep that in mind. Everyone has to do what’s right for them and your customs may not be someone else’s. It’s important not to judge another person for the choices they make and accept them as they are even if they are different than you. We can all learn from one another. There is no reason to have a better than thou attitude nor preach onto others. We should all love each other as we are all brothers and sisters. Valeri is a very special person and our community is so so lucky to have her brand helping us women feel beautiful along with helping make the mitzvah of covering so much easier and better. Shana Tova!
Those are wigs.
The girl is beautiful but she would be even more beautiful with all of her hair covered
How do you even know that the model is jewish or married?
I suggest you should think a little bit more logically
Yes of course I am not judging at all.
All I am saying is it’s a bit strange for BetweenCarPools to put a girl with hair not fully covered
Also this post is obviously sponsored.
This is really disappointing I’m not ok with this I mean come on this is a frum website so you might tell me the model may not be married ok but putting it on here with her hair half covered ppl most likely assume she’s married and even if she was married I am not judging so evryone does what thay want but to put it on a frum website is not ok
I’m sorry I just had to put that out there
So there are a few options, you should either continue scrolling, put a filter on your internet so you don’t see pictures. or you do some work within yourself and think about the ramifications of policing others Judaism. Some rabbeim give heterim to show more or less. Sephardim and ashkenazim have different minhagim. Bh we have so many different sects that we can all learn from each other. You can find something “wrong” or “not tznius to your standards” anywhere, including Jewish owned businesses websites, catalogs etc. it’s your choice how you want to look at it. Do you want to judge and police others? Or do you want to say, that’s not how I would wear the scarf but I love the design! There’s different ways of looking and approaching. The question is, which is it the best way. Right now we’re in the zman of the yamim noraim, keep that in mind. בית המקדש נחרב משנאת חינם
Listen I am sooooo sorry if it sounded like I was judging I am totally not I understand the people that wear there scarfs like that I’m so sorry if that’s how it sounded I was just super confused about it being on BetweenCarPools since it’s known to be a frummy frummy website again I am sorry to those that took what I was saying the wrong way that is not what I meant at all and the last thing I wanted to was police people or judge I really hope I didn’t hurt anyones feelings I was only referring to the website not people
There’s people who run the website that you’re judging. Maybe they’re trying to reach a broad audience of Jews not just ‘frummy frummy’ and they are happy for more types of Jews to feel represented and comfortable on their website. I’m sure they asked their daas torah before posting something. If you feel uncomfortable ask your daas torah if you should be on this website/online. It’s not for us to tell other people what to do, let everyone ask their own Rav.
Im just wondering why they’d lower their standards? And you sound like u feel very comfortable telling the “Frummy Frummy” ppl what to do but u have the back of the “broader audience.” What u should have is utmost respect for the frummy Frummy community
And nonjudgmental acceptance for the “broader audience” but that’s not the standards between carpools has set up so it was surprising to see this post .
Judiasm is not a live and let live religion. That being said, there are halachos to giving mussar as well.
I’m not sure I understand what you are saying can u plz explain
Exactly! I thought before I wrote it. I respect everyone’s lifestyle and I’m not judging anyone at all however, it says in the Torah הוכח תוכיח את עמיתך. That being said, there is a Halacha to cover a women’s hair. If not everyone is able to that’s between them and hashem. However, the fact that a fantastic frum website who prides themselves in always being there for the busy Jewish mom would put up something questionable was surprising. Everyone makes mistakes and nobody is perfect. But between carpool has set a very high standard so therefore I was surprised and decided to mention it. An ad is advertising the best way to wear a product. So your saying the best way to wear this product is not tznius??
Thank you soooo much for understanding what I was saying that’s exactly what I said I would never judge that’s not my type at all and evryone does them and is on their own lvls but this being BetweenCarPools I was a little shocked again I am not judging I am so not a judgmental person I was only referring to the app and not the people that actually do wear their scarf like that
I wish the scarves weren’t so expensive:(