Going to sleepaway camp is a big step for your child…it’s a time when they’ll need to fend for themselves and make decisions without you there daily.
But–just because you’re not there with them doesn’t mean you can’t empower them before they go. These questions and tips will help them get the most out of camp and make it into the true growth experience it has the potential to be.
Important pointers to share with your child before they go to sleepaway camp:
Identify an adult that you will go to with any concerns or issues
Be a Leader, not a follower. Do what you know is right.
Being Kind trumps being cool.
Be Positive! Find something nice to say or skip it…Don’t say: It’s so stupid or it’s so boring, camp food stinks, the head counselor is so mean….
Be Reliable–keep your word.
Be Loyal–Don’t forget your old friends in the excitement of finding new friends.
Be Inclusive–Don’t purposefully leave other kids out.
Trust Your Instincts–If something doesn’t feel or seem right it isn’t, listen to your inner voice.
Respect Other Kids’ Space and Property–Ask permission before using stuff or sitting on another kid’s bed.
Accept a No–Don’t be a nudge. If you ask twice, that’s enough. Let it go.
Be Part of the Group–Don’t sit things out even if you’d rather not do the game, activity etc.
Give Things Your Best Shot. It’s ok not to win. Have fun.
Mean Kids Have Issues–It’s not you.
Be on Time. Don’t be the last one so that your whole bunk is waiting for you.
Evaluate Problems–Don’t tattle on other kids for minor infractions (exception if it’s a safety/danger issue); encourage them to say if something wrong has been done
Safety–Don’t go off with one other kid or staff into a secluded area.
Review unwanted touching.
Careful with Your Own Tznius. Avoid looking at what shouldn’t be seen/or avoid being influenced if other kids are less careful than you.
Remember Who You Are and Where You Come from–Be true to our family’s values and Hashkafos. Make Hashem, your parents, and yourself proud of you!
Here are some of our other favorite ways to prepare for camp:
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