It’s time to create that summer bucket list of things you plan on doing for yourself.
As mothers, we’re always thinking about creating memories for our kids, especially in the summertime. Let’s go see the fireworks. Let’s have a beach day. Let’s go for ices and run in the sprinklers. Let’s learn to ride a bike or go swimming all day.
But what about us? It’s very noble to be selfless, but to be our best selves, sometimes we need to feel refreshed and to be our best selves, sometimes we need to feel that we had our own time off too.
Before we lose more of summer, it’s time to create that summer bucket list of things you plan on doing for yourself–so that, by the time summer ends, even if you didn’t go anywhere, you feel like summer was a time you enjoyed. If we don’t, if we only get stuck in routine, then we can feel like summer was never here–and we do need some of that “off” time to carry us through the routine of the year.
The items below are just ideas. {Every person should make a list that is realistic for them. Every person is different; everyone enjoys different types of activities.}
You can do some on your own; a few others involve people. Whatever you do, do it with intention: I’m doing this to feel energized, to feel refreshed, to be able to feel like I had a bit of a summer myself.
Don’t make your list too long… keep it realistic and write it down!
- Read a light fun book; read lots of books
- Enjoy coffee outdoors
- Plan a date night (or 2!)
- Meet a friend for brunch
- Enjoy a summer walk (listen to a podcast!)
- Pick up the phone and call a friend you haven’t spoken to in a while
- Relax at the pool
- Visit a bookstore or library
- Create a spa bath experience (music, candles)
- Take a yoga class
- Watch sunrise and/or sunset (perhaps the same day!)
- Go to shul Shabbos morning (arrange child care and go yourself!)
- Purge and organize a closet that’s been annoying you
- Have a barely cook week, here’s how
- Drink a fruity cocktail, preferably outdoors
- Get together with a sister, neighbor, husband and play a game. Boggle, Scrabble and Pictionary are great classics
- Have soft serve ice cream
- Buy yourself an expensive piece of chocolate
- Have a picnic (the easy way is to buy or make sandwiches + a bag of chips and sit down in a park, at a lake, or beach!)
- Take a tennis lesson
- Listen to a shiur?
Have more ideas of what we can do to enjoy summer? Comment below!
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B K says
Great ideas!
Here’s more- paint, try journaling
Goldie says
Thanks for the list! How about doing a puzzle? I am finally doing a 1,000 piece puzzle that I have been wanting to make all year. Bought a puzzle saver on amazon for easy storage so the kids don’t get to it.
R says
I did this when you posted for summer. I managed to do four out of ten simply because Hashem threw me so many curveball that I was literally a master juggler. Here are the four that I did: 1. Treated myself to expensive ice cream 2. Buy myself four new tshirts 3. Swim in the ocean 4. Drink an ice coffee in the sun with no phone or distraction