Aside from preparing special meals (whether they’re traditional or not so much), there are different things that we all do that create an atmosphere of oneg Shabbos.
And everyone does different things to increase our families enjoyment and anticipation. We compiled some comments from ourselves, our friends, and family. Also: A lot of Shabbos-related treats have to do with the kids. But–this is for adults too–what increases your enjoyment on Shabbos? Now it’s your turn to share what you do – we can all use more ideas.
“We have separate Shabbos pajamas–they’re darker colors and are worn specifically on Shabbos.”
“We have Shabbos party of course–if my kids see a candy during the week that they want, I say yes–we can save it for Shabbos party.”
“I like for my younger kids to wake up to a special breakfast Shabbos morning–whether it’s rugelach, candy yogurts, a gooey babka, or a special cereal, like Kariot.”
“My husband doesn’t sing zemiros–but my son’s Rebbe taught different zemiros for Shabbos and now he teaches them to the family.”
“We only eat dessert on Shabbos–we don’t have cake during the week.”
“We take a break between kiddush and the seudah on Shabbos morning, it’s special family time we all look forward to – we enjoy reading or playing or just schmoozing and relaxing.”
“I buy lots of ices–all year round–for Shabbos only (and only enough for Shabbos–I don’t stock up). Each week, there’s always a couple of different varieties in the freezer. They have them for dessert Friday night and there’s more for Shabbos afternoon.”
“We buy and save all the magazines for Shabbos… I don’t let them touch them until Shabbos comes.”
“We bought a napkin book, and on Friday, my children prepare a special napkin for Shabbos.”
“On Friday night, everyone is allowed to pile into my bed and read books quietly. It’s quiet reading time.”
“At the table, or after, when we’re all sitting together on the couch, I take out the Jewish Kids Journal and we answer a few questions together. If I don’t remember, my kids definitely do!”
“For shalosh seudos, we have an avocado toast bar like this post”
“My brother-in-law is in charge of buying the candy in his house each week. He knows what each of his child’s favorites are and picks out something for each one.”
“In my house, we’re not so much into sweet and candy, but we love our savory treats. I’ll buy the popcorn from here… the pitzuchim from here… and we look forward to those favorites.”
“My favorite oneg Shabbos is: a new book.”
Now we want to hear from you!
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