The 6 Products Only a Big Sister Will Tell You About

These tried and true feminine products might be everyone else’s secret. But we’re sharing them with you.

There have been many times that BCP has been lovingly referred to as “the big sister in your pocket.” Well, if that’s the case, we have some more big sisterly advice. The kinda stuff only a big sister can tell you and the kinda advice you know you better listen to because big sisters have been there and done that. Here are 6 feminine products we love and wish someone had told us about years ago. 

  1. The only sanitary napkin you should ever buy. Why? Try it and you’ll understand. 
  2. The most comfortable (and flattering!) panty out there. It’s one size fits all and, yes, some of us wore them through pregnancy so you know it works. Hey, we could all do without a daily reminder of what size we currently are. See here for the hipster version and here for the bikini version. There are many colors to choose from. They also come in a convenient 5 hipster pack for some savings as well.  
  3. These slip shorts are great for preventing chafing in the summer and also for just smoothing you under a slinky skirt when you’re not wearing tights. If you’re looking for a little more added support these skimmies slip shorts are the next best thing. A reader suggested these for maternity. 
  4. Don’t bother trying any other nursing pad. This is the one. They are incredibly soft for a disposable. And the pads have a honeycomb lining to pull away moisture and keep you dry even when you really should have changed to a fresh pad but had no time. Also, they are way thinner than other disposables. We know we don’t need any extra bulk.
  5. These gel pads are great too for those first days when nursing can be hard and painful. Nobody tells you how painful nursing can be, right? Well, these here will bring much-needed relief and help heal cracks.
  6. Do you sometimes keep your arms pressed down because you’re worried about sweat marks under your arms? Wanna be active but you’re afraid that you’ll sweat through your shirt? These disposable sweat pads are easy to use. and will keep you looking fresh.

Editor’s Note: We’ve since added a Teen Edition to this post; Read it here!

Slipshort

These slip shorts are great for preventing chafing in the summer and also for just smoothing you under a slinky skirt when you’re not wearing tights.

also in Beige

skimmies

If you’re looking for a little more added support these skimmies are the next best thing.

also in Black and White

maternity shaper

A reader suggested these for maternity.

Lansinoh nursing pads

They are incredibly soft for a disposable (and way thinner than others) and have a honeycomb lining to pull away moisture and keep you dry.

gel pads

These gel pads are great too for those first days when nursing can be hard and painful.

They will bring much-needed relief and help heal cracks.

disposable sweat pads

These disposable sweat pads are easy to use and will keep you looking fresh.

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29 responses to “The 6 Products Only a Big Sister Will Tell You About”

  1. Dinah Avatar
    Dinah

    Great post! Just started using the sanitary pads they are amazing. And of course the lansinoh. I’m excited to try the gel nursing pads after I give birth iy”H.

  2. Rochel Avatar
    Rochel

    Yes, the infinity pads are awesome!
    Just an FYI, I was allergic to the lansinoh nursing pads. Got terribly red, burning and itching. I thought I had thrush…turns out they were the culprit!

  3. Anon2 Avatar
    Anon2

    Thank you BCP for the sisterly advice again! These are great! I’m a big fan of the Lansinoh pads and the Soothies were a lifesaver more than once!
    Keep the advice coming please! Maybe can you do a post about how to “know” what is in style…some ppl just “get” it and I don’t have that flair… or maybe advice on when to shop for new seasons, that kinda stuff would be great coming into a new shopping season now 🙁

  4. B Avatar
    B

    I would of love to find the shorts in maternity if u have any advice on that please post. Thank u

    1. Baila Avatar
      Baila

      Hi,
      I ordered these in my sixth month and ordered a second one a few weeks later cuz I live in them!!! I get terrible heat rashes now in the summer and these are a life saver!!! They are super comfy and stretch along with you!!! I got size L/XL – I carry pretty big.
      Hope I’ve been of help 🙂

  5. CJ Avatar
    CJ

    Please add the DivaCup. Big sister verified.

    1. S Avatar
      S

      Agreed! The DivaCup changed my life.

    2.  Avatar
      Anonymous

      Yes! The diva cups’s suction has shortened my periods by a full day

    3. P Avatar
      P

      Better than a tampon?

      1. S Avatar
        S

        No comparison!!

  6. Y Tabak Avatar
    Y Tabak

    This is amazing!
    Can you please write a post on good and supportive sports bras?

  7. R Avatar
    R

    Love this post. The dress shields reminded me of the years I wore them, the daily struggle of wet arm pits. Until I found certain dri!! ( an anti perspirant) It’s a life saver!
    Try it and thank me later.

  8. Dinah Avatar
    Dinah

    FYI Chantelle has the panties on sale, if you buy 3, you save more on top of the discount…

  9. Suri Avatar
    Suri

    Another vote for the diva cup. I started using it about 5 years ago and love it!

    1. Ys Avatar
      Ys

      I tried using the diva cup and it’s so uncomfortable. What am I doing wrong?

    2. Momamama Avatar
      Momamama

      I bought lately by mistake the always radient, and its a game changer!! No feel and good smell!
      What is the difference though between radiant and infinity?

  10. Bella S Avatar
    Bella S

    I personally hated the lansinoh pads. Love their cream and their milk storage bags, can’t stand their pads. I found that because the back is somewhat plasticky, i never felt dry, especially over night. That also made me more susceptible to itchiness and irritation. I much preferred the evenflo ultra thin ones, much more breathable

  11. Sara Avatar
    Sara

    The gel pads are AMAZING! I found them when I had my first baby. I recommend them to new moms who plan to nurse all of the time. This is a great thing to tuck in a bag with a meal for a new mom.

  12. Rochel Raz Avatar
    Rochel Raz

    I’ve tried the Lansinoh pads, but I found them to be much less absorbent than the Walmart brand (parent’s choice)

  13. Hinda Avatar
    Hinda

    Nothing like silverettes when you nurse. Use t5hen as soon as you have the baby. First kid (#4) I had zero pain zero cracked or hurt nipples. Game changer and all non toxic!!! I want to tell the world about them:)

  14. Suri Avatar
    Suri

    I have used driclor in the past for sweat, I have times when I am really sweaty. It’s a roll on and can be brought on Amazon, it really eliminates the sweat.
    Driclor Antiperspirant Roll On Applicator, Protects Against Heavy Perspiration, 20 ml

  15. breindel simon Avatar
    breindel simon

    Hi, firstly i need to THANK YOU ALL for ALL your big sister practical advice which is useful and encouraging!!!
    Now about these sanitary napkins you noted SEE WHY WE SUGGEST THESE….i use STAYFREE for its dry and clean cottony feel and whichever ALWAYS product I used was more sweaty…Though i have few girls and would like to hear explanation for i love to hear different opinions and options and be informed….
    THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!

  16. c Avatar
    c

    Anyone have any good products for leaking (like when you sneeze….) when expecting?

    1. e.h Avatar
      e.h

      pelvic floor therapy can help with that

    2. B Avatar
      B

      Try pelvic floor therapy with a PT (when expecting and after birth iy”H) to strengthen your muscles.

      1. R Avatar
        R

        Chava which is a branch from A Time, offers assistance in finding the right PT. https://www.atime.org/services/help-during-treatment-2/

    3. Chana Avatar
      Chana

      Best tip is too cross yout legs when u sneeze and or do a kegel. Sneezing puts a lots of pressure on the pelvic floor

  17. Mamamama Avatar
    Mamamama

    I bought lately by mistake the always radient, and its a game changer!! No feel and good smell!
    What is the difference though between radiant and infinity?

  18. Leah Avatar
    Leah

    Tampons are menna shorten periods?

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